Be Grateful that They Care

When someone says something, perhaps about things that contradict our opinion, don't simply label or think negatively about them. Everyone has different opinions. People think, see things differently. We should be grateful that we still have that someone who can give us a different point of view, so we can learn.

Its 2014 already. We are getting older. When people criticize, stop thinking that they are trying to give you the negative vibes, they are trying to lower your self esteem, they have bad intention toward you and you need to get rid of them in your life. You are the one who have so much negativities and you never realize that. All you wanna do is pointing finger. You're the one who are always right.  Every presence of someone is meaningful. There must be a reason why did He let this and that people came into your life.

It's not wrong to listen, sit and think about what people say and do. I bet you people have once read or being told that "dalam diri manusia itu terdapat seketul daging. Apabila baik daging itu maka akan baiklah pula yang lain. Apabila buruk daging itu ..buruklah pula yang lain. Ketahuilah bahawa daging tersebut adalah hati" Teach your heart to always think good about people. To always think that every single thing that people do, they are having good intention. But janganlah if nampak mat pit has been following you for 15 minutes, you still think that they are having good intention. Tengok situation la. Big enough already kan? :) 

We need that someone, who is honest with us. Who will give us opinions based what they really think, not for the sake of making us happy. Hypocrite Sampai bila nak hidup kena puji, tak nak kena kritik? The government pun kena critique for making this and that by the citizen, because the citizens see which part the government is wrong (in theor opinions). Why did they do that? Is it because they don't love the government? No. Because they love the country. They want the country to be a better nation. Same goes to us. Belajarlah terima teguran, kritikan, percanggahan pendapat. Tak rugi. Sikit pun tak rugi. Sebab manusia, tak sempurna. The variety in opinions semua tu lah yang complete us. Tell yourself, diorang tegur sebab sayang, sebab care. If they don't, they wouldn't have said anything.