Stop stereotyping

We always want the best for ourselves, for our loved ones. Isn't it? But I found it's so funny that sometimes when we tell people of the thing that we really realy want, we're simply being stereotype. It's so unfair. 

Is it wrong if a woman wants a guy who's ambitious, have plans of his life, knows what he wants and what he doesn't want rather than a guy who still doesn't know what to do with his life and all he did was complaining and blaiming? 

Dude, if you're a father, you wouldn't let your daughter to marry a guy who's lost and not ready for his future. It's not because you're materialistic or just looking at some guys who's rich and have stable job to marry your daughter. I mean, you've been funding her for 20 years and more why would you wanna pass that job to other people through marriage. Right? It's not that you can't afford it. But it's just because you want the BEST for her. is it so hard to understand? 

I know there are people out there who wants a guy who's already established so she will hidup senang but some only want the best for their life and if you can't be the "perfect" guy for her, don't simply call the girl mata duitan or pisau cukur. You might not the "perfect" or "right" guy fo that particular girl, but you'll be a perfect guy for another girl someday. Focus on "perfecting" yourself and the "perfect" girl will come to you someday. 

Always always be positive with whatever happen to you and around you cus there's always something you can learn from it. :)